Do Family Members or Doctors Have to Follow My Advance Directive?
Creating your Advance directive is very personal. And, because they address end-of-life wishes, they can also stir up a lot of emotions- both in you as the person creating the advance directive and in the other people in your life.
You may wonder if their family members or other loved ones could change or disregard your advance directive, especially if you become incapacitated. You may even wonder if your doctor could change your wishes, even if you were very clear in your instructions.
Fortunately, the legal control of your end-of-life decisions remains with you, so long as people are actually aware of your wishes at the time decisions are being made.
What if my family doesn't like my advance directive?
If your family does not agree with the wishes expressed in your advance directive, it is important to have a conversation with them to try to understand their concerns and come to a resolution. It can be helpful to explain the reasons behind your decisions and to assure them that your wishes reflect your values and desires.
In some cases, family members may have concerns about the potential consequences of certain decisions outlined in the advance directive. For example, they may be worried about the potential impact on their own well-being or on the distribution of your assets. In these cases, it can be helpful to discuss these concerns and provide information and reassurance.
If it is not possible to reach a resolution with your family, it is important to remember that your advance directive is a legal document that reflects your wishes. As long as it is properly completed and meets the requirements of your state, it should be followed. It is ultimately your decision to determine the type of medical treatment and care you want to receive.
Do doctors have to follow my advance directive?
Doctors are required to follow your advance directive as long as it is properly completed and meets the requirements of the state in which you live. Assuming you included medical or healthcare-related instructions in your advance directive, doctors are required to follow them unless doing so would cause them to violate their ethical obligations or the law.
It is important to discuss your advance directive with your doctors to ensure that they are aware of your wishes. This can help ensure that your doctors are able to follow the instructions outlined in the document and provide you with the type of care that you desire.
Share Your Wishes
It is important that the potential decision-makers in your life (in case you are incapacitated) know that you have an advance directive, know where to find it, and have an idea of what is in it. Let your loved ones know where to find it, and consider filing a copy with your doctor and hospital. This will ensure that your wishes are known and respected in the event that you are unable to make decisions for yourself.